Setting this up to figure out if there is any other people out there that are:
1. Married or in a serious relationship
2. Stuck with a jealous partner
3. Would like to be more open
4. Want to know how to communicate this to their partner.
5. Open to allowing the partner to be shared.
6. Afraid for what their reaction might be.
For the record, "open" and "shared" refer to sex.
My wife is very quick to talk about co-workers whom have affairs. Seems to be her favorite topic.
We also have a "strap on" that she enjoys when I have "finished", we call it her boyfriend.
She is also quick to accuse me of being unfaithful.
I have never been unfaithful, but would like nothing more then to get past the jealousy and be more open and honest with her, because, other people are attractive!
Don't get me wrong, I don't want to start banging other women.
But I wouldn't mind if she got it hard, deep and fast from some stud!
She is open to an extent. She is into the nudity thing and has had other men in her life in the past.
But, since we have gotten married, it is like.....accusations and 20 questions all the time.
Who are you working with. Just off the wall stuff.
And I would like nothing more then to get past this by having her have mind blowing sex with someone else.
No, I don't want volunteers, I want to know how to communicate with her and bring this idea up to her without having her clear my property out of our home because "I don't love her anymore, because if I did, I wouldn't......"
Post your stories, give me feedback.
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